Today is the Qixi Festival, everyone learn a bit, maybe you can use it tonight.
You're just posing in these three positions, you can't say "I know".
What everyone thinks of as secret techniques in the bedroom might be like practicing the "Art of Love" and unlocking countless tricks. As someone who prefers practicality, I have indeed tried these tricks and gained some insights.
But in bed, pleasure is definitely greater than tricks. Especially in my experience, many people haven't mastered the three basic positions of "man on top", "woman on top", and "doggy style".
If you really know how to use these three positions, you can achieve great pleasure. So don't say "I only feel anything with XX position" anymore~
Mastering these classic three positions will lead to great pleasure, and both partners can experience it together. It's much more practical than the "72 techniques":
Before explaining the positions, let's talk about great pleasure: ladies, don't doubt it, most female orgasms come from clitoral stimulation.
G-spot orgasms come from repeated stimulation of the G-spot. And finding the G-spot is not difficult or deep, it's on the upper inner wall, you can feel it with just one finger joint.
If you want multiple orgasms and the most pleasurable sensations, stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time.
So you see, if you want to have a great time, it's not about "size", it's about being "good in bed" and consciously stimulating the important areas.
And good positions are about finding ways to stimulate both of these points as much as possible.
Woman on Top
I've found that more men enjoy the woman on top position. Because they can be in the "spectator seat" and enjoy the whole process.
▎Common issues:
I don't know how to exert force or move when I'm on top!
I get tired quickly when I'm on top, and I don't know how to increase the intensity.
▎Solution:
If you're in a kneeling position, then it's natural to move back and forth with gentle movements, suitable for teasing at the beginning.
After a while, switch to squatting, it feels great to move back and forth and up and down. If you get tired, he can support your buttocks and help you with the movements.
When your whole body feels numb and you can't control yourself, gently lie on top of him, you can still be on top and he can move up and down.
▎Advanced tricks:
What can you do with your hands at this time?
You can caress your own breasts, put your fingers in your mouth to suck (either in your mouth or his), make everything more seductive.
When it's the critical moment, you can stimulate the clitoris, which stimulates both orgasm points, making it very easy to reach a high.
Man on Top
The man on top position is the most common position, known as the basic position. Everyone thinks there won't be any issues, but when demonstrating, it was discovered that many people just lie there motionless.
Dr. Chunyu
▎Common issues:
The position is too classic, it doesn't feel as exciting and stimulating, what should I do?
Every time in this position, besides lying there, I don't know what else to do.
▎Solution:
The woman's legs can change positions.
Rest them on his shoulders - visually, he can admire your long legs and caress them; he can also see the key areas, which is enticing.
Wrap your legs around his waist - your legs wrapped around his waist like an embrace, both people will feel a sense of security, and the woman can easily find the rhythm, and coordinate with it.
Lift your legs high - it's easy to go deep, and it's easy to make loud "clapping" sounds for added excitement.
▎Advanced tricks:
Use a pillow to make it easier to stimulate the G-spot on the upper wall.
Squeeze as tightly as possible, because the biggest charm of the man on top position is "being able to see each other's faces" and "skin-to-skin contact"; if you're a wild girl, why not take the opportunity to spank his buttocks?! Those who have tried it say it's good~
Thoughtful men can still caress the woman's clitoris in this position, after all, when it comes to orgasms, it's good for both of you. If you get carried away during sex, you can use a "vibrating ring" or "couple's vibrator" and other toys, the goal is to stimulate both points at the same time.
Doggy Style
The wildest and most primal position, it gives men a great sense of conquest. So how can women enjoy this position?
▎Common issues:
I'm not very flexible, my legs are spread too wide and it's a bit painful...
He's behind me, my hands are in front, I don't know what to do to interact with him.
▎Solution:
There are generally three positions for doggy style, both the man and woman are in a kneeling position, so it requires some coordination between the two, and the woman's body needs to be somewhat flexible, because he will press down harder when he gets excited... (those who have experienced it will understand)
If you don't want to spread your legs too wide, then choose a sofa or the edge of the bed. The woman kneels and the man stands, it's simpler this way.
For those who care about body contact, both people can lie down, with him pressing tightly against you from behind, in this case, it depends on the man's waist strength.
▎Advanced tricks:
Even though you're not facing him, your back and hands are still in play, tightly gripping the sheets and conveying your emotions to him. After all, those who enjoy this position have a certain desire for conquest.
You can also ask him to do more tricks, ask him to kiss your back, and you can also reach out and rub your breasts.
And you, from the front, can easily reach out and stimulate the clitoris!! If you're not careful, you'll stimulate both points and reach a great pleasure!
Of course, you can also reach out and rub his testicles (this position makes it easy), the testicles are also a sensitive area that can easily be stimulated to orgasm for men. Turn the tables and let both of you conquer each other!
Author: Dopamine Girl